120 Black Women Quotes About Self Love

At Everyday Power, we have curated inspirational black women quotes from authors, actresses, activists, and more. 

There is nothing like the power of a black woman.

Who is a black woman that inspires you? 

A black woman’s wisdom is endless. This collection is a fraction of it, featuring quotes from insightful, powerful, and beautiful black women.

We hope to inspire you during your day whether you are powering through a workday or enjoying a much-needed self-care day. 

Whether you scribble your favorite quote in your journal or repost the quote on Instagram, be sure to record your favorites for any time you need a pick-me-up. 

Check out the quotes below to learn from the minds of amazing black women. 

Inspirational black women quotes

1. “A crown, if it hurts us, is not worth wearing.” — Pearl Bailey

2. “It’s time for you to move, realizing that the thing you are seeking is also seeking you.” — Iyanla Vanzant

3. “You can fall, but you can rise also.” – Angelique Kidjo

4. “If you prioritize yourself, you are going to save yourself.” – Gabrielle Union

5. “Life is short, and it’s up to you to make it sweet.” – Sadie Delany

6. “Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure.”  – Oprah Winfrey

7. “I am no longer accepting the things I cannot change. I am changing the things I cannot accept.” ― Angela Davis

8. “You are on the eve of a complete victory. You can’t go wrong. The world is behind you.” – Josephine Baker

9. “There’s always something to suggest that you’ll never be who you wanted to be. Your choice is to take it or keep on moving.” — Phylicia Rashad

10. “Don’t wait around for other people to be happy for you. Any Happiness you get you’ve got to make yourself.”– Alice Walker

11. “Don’t settle for average. Bring your best to the moment. Then, whether it fails or succeeds, at least you know you gave all you had. We need to live the best that’s in us.” – Angela Bassett

12. “Your willingness to look at your darkness is what empowers you to change.”— Iyanla Vanzant

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Black women quotes on life

13. “I don’t have to go around trying to save everybody anymore; that’s not my job. ” — Jada Pinkett Smith

14. “No matter where life takes me there will always be someone who’s threatened by it.” —  Franchesca Ramsey

15. “It isn’t where you come from; it’s where you’re going that counts.” – Ella Fitzgerald

16. “You will be wounded many times in your life. You’ll make mistakes. Some people will call them failures but I have learned that failure is really God’s way of saying, “Excuse me, you’re moving in the wrong direction.” It’s just an experience, just an experience.” – Oprah Winfrey

17. “My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style.” ― Maya Angelou

18. “Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.” — Maya Angelou

19. “You’ve just got to follow your own path. You have to trust your heart and you have to listen to the warnings.” ― Chaka Khan

20. “If you are silent about your pain, they’ll kill you and say you enjoyed it.” — Zora Neale Hurston

21. “You may not always have a comfortable life and you will not always be able to solve all of the world’s problems at once but don’t ever underestimate the importance you can have because history has shown us that courage can be contagious and hope can take on a life of its own.” – Michelle Obama

22. “Deal with yourself as an individual worthy of respect, and make everyone else deal with you the same way. ” – Nikki Giovanni

23. “I’d rather regret the risks that didn’t work out than the chances I didn’t take at all.” – Simone Biles (see more quotes by Simone Biles)

24. “Once we recognize what it is we are feeling, once we recognize we can feel deeply, love deeply, can feel joy, then we will demand that all parts of our lives produce that kind of joy.” – Audre Lorde

25. “When you put love out in the world it travels, and it can touch people and reach people in ways that we never even expected.” – Laverne Cox

Black women quotes on success

26. “Instead of looking at the past, I put myself ahead twenty years and try to look at what I need to do now in order to get there then.” — Diana Ross

27. “I thrive on obstacles. If I’m told that it can’t be told, then I push harder.” – Issa Rae

28. “I have standards I don’t plan on lowering for anybody … including myself.” – Zendaya

29. “I always believed that when you follow your heart or your gut, when you really follow the things that feel great to you, you can never lose, because settling is the worst feeling in the world.” – Rihanna

30. “I have learned over the years that when one’s mind is made up, this diminishes fear; knowing what must be done does away with fear.” – Rosa Parks

31. “You wanna know what scares people? Success. When you don’t make moves and when you don’t climb up the ladder, everybody loves you because you’re not competition.” – Nicki Minaj

32. “There have been so many people who have said to me, ‘You can’t do that,’ but I’ve had an innate belief that they were wrong. Be unwavering and relentless in your approach.” – Halle Berry

33. “There’s so much creativity in brokeness. Brokeness will have you making it work.” — Issa Rae

34. “Be passionate and move forward with gusto every single hour of every single day until you reach your goal.” — Ava DuVernay
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35. “Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.” – Oprah Winfrey

36. “I’m convinced that we Black women possess a special indestructible strength that allows us to not only get down, but to get up, to get through, and to get over.” — Janet Jackson

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Black women quotes on self-love

37. “It was when I realized I needed to stop trying to be somebody else and be myself, I actually started to own, accept and love what I had.” – Tracee Ellis Ross

38. “Freeing yourself was one thing; claiming ownership of that freed self was another.” – Toni Morrison

39. “It is so liberating to really know what I want, what truly makes me happy, what I will not tolerate. I have learned that it is no one else’s job to take care of me but me.” – Beyonce Knowles-Carter

40. “Helped are those who are content to be themselves; they will never lack mystery in their lives and the joys of self-discovery will be constant.” ― Alice Walker

41. “Learn to be quiet enough to hear the genuine in yourself, so that you can hear it in others.” – Marian Wright Edelman

42. “When you undervalue what you do, the world will undervalue who you are.” ― Oprah Winfrey

43. “Embrace what makes you unique, even if it makes others uncomfortable. I didn’t have to become perfect because I’ve learned throughout my journey that perfection is the enemy of greatness.” – Janelle Monae

44. “I don’t have any time to stay up all night worrying about what someone who doesn’t love me has to say about me.” — Viola Davis

Black women quotes to encourage you

45. “When you take care of yourself, you’re a better person for others. When you feel good about yourself, you treat others better.” – Solange Knowles

46. “We must reject not only the stereotypes that others hold of us, but also the stereotypes that we hold of ourselves.” ― Shirley Chisholm

47. “Girls of all kinds can be beautiful — from the thin, plus-sized, short, very tall, ebony to porcelain-skinned; the quirky, clumsy, shy, outgoing, and all in between. It’s not easy though because many people still put beauty into a confining, narrow box … Think outside of the box … Pledge that you will look in the mirror and find the unique beauty in you.” – Tyra Banks

48. “I have chosen to no longer be apologetic for my femaleness and my femininity. And I want to be respected in all of my femaleness because I deserve to be.” ― Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

49. “Trust yourself. Think for yourself. Act for yourself. Speak for yourself. Be yourself. Imitation is suicide.” – Marva Collins

50. “It’s important for young people to know that they are made the way they are made and they’re beautiful and that’s how they’re supposed to be.” – Raven-Symone

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Other inspirational black women quotes

51. “The way to right wrongs is to turn the light of truth upon them.” — Ida B. Wells
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52. “Never limit yourself because of others’ limited imagination; never limit others because of your own limited imagination.” — Dr. Mae Jemison

53. “We are all gifted. That is our inheritance.” – Ethel Waters

54. “Let nothing dim the light that shines from within.” – Maya Angelou

55. “If women want any rights more than they’s got, why don’t they just take them, and not be talking about it.” — Sojourner Truth
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56. “Keep working hard and you can get anything that you want. If God gave you the talent, you should go for it. But don’t think it’s going to be easy. It’s hard!” – Aaliyah

57. “You don’t make progress by standing on the sidelines, whimpering and complaining. You make progress by implementing ideas.” — Shirley Chisholm

58. “I am a strong woman with or without this other person, with or without this job, and with or without these tight pants.”— Queen Latifah

59. “The path to your success is not as fixed and inflexible as you think.” — Misty Copeland

60. “The kind of beauty I want most is the hard-to-get kind that comes from within – strength, courage, dignity.” —Ruby Dee

Powerful black women quotes

61. “We need to do a better job of putting ourselves higher on our own ‘to do’ list.” — Michelle Obama

62. “When the heart is right, the mind and body will follow.” – Coretta Scott King

63. “No matter how far a person can go the horizon is still way beyond you.”— Zora Neale Hurston

64. “Perseverance is my motto.” – Madam C.J. Walker

65. “Struggle is a never-ending process. Freedom is never really won, you earn it and win it in every generation.” — Coretta Scott King

66. “No matter what accomplishments you make, somebody helped you.” –
Althea Gibson

67. “Each person must live their life as a model for others.” – Rosa Parks

68. “We have to talk about liberating minds as well as liberating society.” –Angela Davis

69. “I love to see a young girl go out and grab the world by the lapels.” – Maya Angelou

70. “Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more.” – Oprah Winfrey

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Thought-provoking black women quotes

71. “We must always attempt to lift as we climb.” – Angela Davis

72. “This black woman rocks on a phenomenal level!” – Stephanie Lahart

73. “The collective, orchestrated fury of Black women can move the whole world.” ― Brittney Cooper

74. “When you are willing to make sacrifices for a great cause, you will never be alone.” – Coretta Scott King

75. “The voice of a Black woman should always be HERSELF… No edits – no erasure – no pressure – no expectations – no additions – no intruders.” – Malebo Sephodi

76. “Black women were armed, black women were dangerous and the less money they had the deadlier the weapon they choose.” – Toni Morrison

77. “You may be amazed that you are still unique and beautiful as your natural self. Only you can decide if this style is for you.” – Monica Millner

78. “Be not discouraged black women of the world, but push forward, regardless of the lack of appreciation shown you.” – Amy Jacques-Garvey

79. “Black skin was filled with so many barriers, so many restrictions, so many.” – Randi Pink

80. “As a black woman, the decision to love yourself just as you are is a radical act. And I’m as radical as they come.” – Bethanee Epifani J. Bryant

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More black women quotes and sayings

81. “She said black women are so special. Few men of any color and even fewer white women can deal with how fabulous we are.” – Maya Angelou

82. “Surely, there’s strength in being dressed for a storm, even when there’s no storm in sight?” – Yaa Gyasi

83. “Feminism is a woman’s vehicle to human agency and fully fulfilling her chosen destiny without interruption.” – Fee Scott

84. “America made us heroines not wives. We hid our ladyness to save our lives.” – Lucille Clifton

85. “Rare is the ministry praying that they would be worthy of the giftedness of Black minds and hearts.” – Austin Channing Brown

86. “And anything I have accomplished, I did so not in spite of being a black woman, but because I am a black woman.” – Gabrielle Union

87. “To turn black women into objectified others was to underline their difference; they may be beautiful, but they are of another kind, separate from the dominant understanding of attractiveness.” – Anne Helen Petersen

88. “We believe in equality for all, and privileges for none. This is a belief that each American regardless of background has equal standing in the public forum, all of us. Because we believe this idea so firmly, we are an inclusive, rather than an exclusive party. Let everybody come.” – Barbara Jordan

89. “I am the essence of magic, its mysteriousness, its beauty and its ability to make things happen when people couldn’t see how!” – Jenaitre Farquharson

90. “Sometimes it’s hard being a girl, and it’s hard being black. Being both is like carrying a double load, but you’re not supposed to complain about it. There are so many things you have to remember about how to be.” – Christina Hammonds Reed

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Black women quotes from Beyoncé and Michelle Obama

91. “Am I good enough? Yes I am.” — Michelle Obama

92. “Power is not given to you. You have to take it.” — Beyoncé Knowles

93. “I embrace mistakes. They make you who you are.” — Beyoncé Knowles

94. “Don’t try to lessen yourself for the world; let the world catch up to you.” — Beyoncé Knowles

95. “I don’t like to gamble, but if there’s one thing I’m willing to bet on, it’s myself.” — Beyoncé Knowles

96. “Failure is an important part of your growth and developing resilience. Don’t be afraid to fail.” — Michelle Obama

97. “Be healthy and take care of yourself, but be happy with the beautiful things that make you, you.” — Beyoncé Knowles

98. “A true diva is graceful, and talented, and strong, and fearless and brave and someone with humility.” — Beyoncé Knowles

99. “Your self-worth is determined by you. You don’t have to depend on someone telling you who you are.” — Beyoncé Knowles

100. “When I’m not feeling my best I ask myself, ‘What are you gonna do about it?’ I use the negativity to fuel the transformation into a better me.” — Beyoncé Knowles

Black women quotes from cultural icons

101. “You are your best thing.” — Toni Morrison

102. “Self-esteem means knowing you are the dream.” — Oprah Winfrey

103. “I was built this way for a reason, so I’m going to use it.” — Simone Biles 

104. “Even if it makes others uncomfortable, I will love who I am.” — Janelle Monáe

105. “Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it.” — Maya Angelou

106. “I did what my conscience told me to do, and you can’t fail if you do that.” — Anita Hill

107. “You’ve got to learn to leave the table when love’s no longer being served.” — Nina Simone

108. “The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.” — Alice Walker

109. “Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.” — Audre Lorde

110. “One of the lessons that I grew up with was to always stay true to yourself and never let what somebody else says distract you from your goals.” — Michelle Obama

Black women quotes from the talented Zendaya

111. “There is no such thing as ugly.” — Zendaya

112. “People always want to doubt you.” — Zendaya

113. “Why limit yourself? I feel like I can do anything.” — Zendaya

114. “Everyone loves Beyonce. If you don’t love Beyonce, we can’t talk.” — Zendaya

115. “Sticking with your vision and what you believe in is so, so important.” —  Zendaya

116. “If there’s any definition to being perfect, you’re perfect at being yourself.” — Zendaya

117. “I don’t think people understand the power of social media or our phones.” — Zendaya

118. “Remember that we are all human beings trying to do what we love to do.” — Zendaya

119. “A lot of people don’t realize that hair is a big thing for a lot of people, not just African-American women. It’s something to be aware of and to be cautious of.” — Zendaya

120. “It’s hard as a young person of a different ethnicity or background to look at the TV and not see anyone who looks like you. Representation is very important.” — Zendaya

Where are you on your journey to self-acceptance?

No matter how you define success, self-acceptance is crucial to achieving it. Whether you are on the starting line or halfway through your journey towards self-acceptance, remember that you are not walking alone.

Many of the black women featured above have traveled through their own journeys and reemerged a happier person. 

Just give yourself time. Soon, you will reach those personal goals. If you know someone who’s on a similar journey, share with them one of the above quotes through their social media page. Sometimes, all we need is an extra push to keep going. 

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